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Did you opt in or opt out of the eye drops?
I always figured we'd just do it because "it's what is done". But the more I've been reading, the more I realize I don't know if there's reason to give them to LO. I don't have any STDs and if they're going to interfere with his eyes and our bonding for those first couple hours, it makes me not want to.
Thoughts?
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Re: Eye Drops at Birth
TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 DS born: February 21, 2012
TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
I don't feel like it interfered with her bonding or really even her vision very much at all.
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I don't know anything about this, but i'm interested in what everyone has to say.
I did talk to my aunt who is a doula and she recommended that I hold off on the hep b shot until the baby is older. she said, what is the real risk of the baby contracting this, and its apparently a very painful shot for baby. so i'm going to follow her suggestion on that
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TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 DS born: February 21, 2012
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IMO the benefits were greater than the concerns most have with them. Plus if states are mandating them, I'd hope they had at least some good reason.
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After I finished pulling DD out she laid on my chest while they finished sowing me up. We had a good hour to bond with her and feed her. When they finally finished with me they took DD (across the room) to give her a bath, shots and the eye gel. After I got her back it was done and it was NBD.
Our hospital is pretty up on everything and since they promote immediate skin-to-skin, the drops/gel would definitely be delayed. I'll still talk with my OB, but you've definitely got me leaning towards it. Thanks!
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Since you are delivering at the hospital I did I’ll let you know the little I know, but since I had a c/s my experience is a bit different anyway. I honestly don’t even remember DD having the drops, but I’m sure she did because nobody asked and it is usually standard even w/ c/s. If you remember the picture I sent you from the hospital it was in the recovery room about an hour after she was born and she didn’t have anything on her eyes. I don’t know if she didn’t get them or if they had already been wiped off by her or nurses. I was not able to do immediate skin-skin because of the c/s, but in recovery she nursed and had an awesome bonding experience and was never an issue. She also slept for 23 of her first 24hrs of life, so there wasn’t much staring at mama. I’m posting this here in case anybody else who had a c/s can let me know what their experience w/ the eye drops were, I’m curious.
This was my experience also. We would have gotten them anyway, but it wasn't obvious that they'd given him the drops, and it's standard practice here to give them to all babies. I had him in my arms maybe 20 minutes after he was delivered, and he came to recovery with me. We were able to have bonding time and he nursed like a champ. Like PP's said, his field of vision was extremely limited anyway, so that shouldn't be a concern.
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